Hey guys! So we like to say and think that other people can impact us. But the truth is, they offer what they can and the rest is up to us. Most of us are not aware of this. We just like to think they simply affect us. Well stop and watch this video. Because WE are in control of ourselves. They can offer all they have to us EX: their anger, dirty looks, rumors (anything that would normally get you angry).. but then its up to us: weather we will accept and absorb their negative energy.. We are Strong human beings, we are all given power. Do not give up your power! Dont be weak! Do not let Other peoples actions and words effect your happiness and your well being! You are better than that. Like i said in my video.. Pretend as if you are in a bubble of light, love, happiness and all good things. Bad things will only flow in if we allow them too. TRANSLATION TO REALITY… lets say someone is yelling at you, we can either be strong and block it out, have their anger bounce off your bubble and disappear, OR you can ALLOW it to go into your bubble and take you over… You allow this to get to you by getting angry, giving in, getting weak, getting mad, thinking about it, letting your head drop.. WELL HOLD YOUR HEAD HIGH GUYS! BELIEVE IT!!! WE ARE IN CONTROL OF EVERYTHING THAT GOES ON WITHIN US!! LOVE AND PEACE.. happy holidays guys!! love you!

not helpful but thanks anyways. btw u r very pretty no homo
hi u are right about that evry thing is ture thanks you take care sweety bye
u mad bro?
I like this.I get pissed all the times and it’s easy to forget that people are just pieces of shit and you have to calm down.
Damn Skippy!
I must respectfully disagree with you. Someone CAN make you upset. Example: you didn’t rip off your top and jump up and down. That is very upsetting to me.
@ICheckAvailability dump that friend tell him to shut up block him and block everyone for a while except you’re family
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Also I Am The Kind Of Pearson Who Wants TO Enjoy Life And Not Dis-Like It And I Want No Enemies I Need Advice Please!! Is It Me Or Is It Her ?
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What Would You Do If You Shared Alot Of Stuff Been Nice To Someone And Then Your ”Friend” Gets Jealous Of You Also Everyone Is My Friend In Class I Am Just Not Sure About This One What Should I Do ?
Just wanted to tell you. Words you can control. But some actions are the ones you can’t control. Like (for example) when you’re trying to sleep and some d***** bag doesn’t let you and then you can’t sleep anymore. Beating the crap out of them always makes me feel better.
Honestly i dont think that u can actually ”control” ur mood or how u feel cuz its like u cant control how u grow up. in both situations u cannot predict what is going to happen nor can u predict what others are going to do to make u mad or make u sad… it is out of ur control how u feel…however what u do to express that feeling or if we express it at all, that IS in our control… its tru that no one can make u any thing, but i do believe that what people DO can ake you mad
Brilliant!! You speak the truth, wise young lady. No one can make you ANYTHING. We all have the power to creatively choose our response to any situation. Forgiveness is the key to be FREE
I’m glad to see someone so young has so much common sense. Why should what someone says piss you off. Grow up! People are always gonna say stupid shit so why let it bother you, let them eat their own shit. Unless you like eating shit.
what if people say that child abuse is good. im pretty sure that would piss you off. what i saying is there are some things that you make you mad.
Pepole consider me an outsider because im so 18 century and that i should be more modern with my clothes,computer,personality,and that i should stop studing so much and be more active and outgoing.But the problem is that it wont happen,because im shy and im bad at making friends due to my diffrences.I only have 2 friends that are my friends almost about the same thing.AND IM ONLY 11!!!
I expected to find a crazy, easily influenced teenage girl blabbing on about a boy or something. But this video really helped a lot, thanks
I can not control my temper im soooo high blood
im in love and i wanna be in your bubble with u forever
Wow jesus christ! im 14 and a half will you go out with me?
u r a small kid but so intelligent
yu make he hella mad jk jk =D!!!!!!!!!!!
mind blowing, you girl… keep it up
Wow, I need to learn how to shorten what I’m trying to say. Perhaps I just like the sound of my own voice . . er . . sound of my own typing?
and disregard their statements or actions just because they may evoke anger. What if someone was trying to convince you that doing heroine is ”not the choicest of activities” and you ”drop their present” to avoid becoming enraged. I suppose I would somewhat agree with everyone having the ability to choose what makes them angry, in a general sense, but no one can decide if the events they experience would cause anger. I guess all I am trying to say is that anger is just as relevant as happiness.
Anger plays an important role in our development and how we learn to handle situations. If anger serves no purpose, why is it there? Becoming angered is something that stems from our necessity to defend ourselves when we feel we are being threatened. I’m not attempting to undermine the importance of controlling ones anger; just realize that anger isn’t something you should dismiss. It would serve far better to understand your anger or frustration and attempt to resolve it, not turn people away..